Do you ever feel like you’re limiting yourself to doing what you think is realistic?

What if that realistic thing is not inspiring you? What if you want more?

There’s a saying that says how you do one thing is how you do everything. Chances are if you are limiting yourself in one area of your life, you are probably doing it in other areas of your life too.

Where are you holding yourself back?

I recently worked with a client and we were discussing goals. I asked her what she wanted and she replied: Do you want to hear what I think is realistic or what I really want? We continued the conversation and realized that what she wanted was really very different from what she thought she could do. This is very common.

The problem was that someone had told her what she wanted to do was not realistic, so now she was adjusting her goals accordingly, even though there are many people who has done what she wanted to do and it was very possible.

We live in a society full of limiting beliefs, and it’s easy to pick up the idea that you can’t have what you want. You may even have been told that from your own parents!

But I’m here to tell you you can have, be and do anything you want. There are no limits to what’s possible if you put your heart and soul into something and you are willing to do what it takes.

A challenge is only there for you to learn and grow, it’s not meant to hold you back.

I want you to think for a moment. Imagine that you lived on a farm a few hundred years ago, living off your land, riding horse and buggy. A stranger walked onto the farm and told you that you could communicate via a device called a computer, and you could send messages to the other side of the world that would be received with the blink of an eye using a smartphone.   Would you think it was possible?

Chances are you would have needed to see it before you believed it.

I like the quote that says:

“The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person who is doing it.”

If you want to be successful and get what you really want, rather than doing what other people may deem realistic, you need to hang out with the people who believe you can have what you want and who are also doing it.

What happens when you limit yourself is you stop where you think you can’t go any further. It’s like you have an internal thermostat that turns off when you get close to the limit for what you think you can do.  Your belief becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

People are breaking records and doing things every day that we thought were impossible yesterday. If nobody was willing to try the “impossible” we wouldn’t have any progress.  Only by breaking our own records will we make true progress.

I challenge you to take a look at your life and ask yourself, where are you reducing your goals or life to “what’s realistic”? What would you rather have instead? What does your soul really crave?

The truth is, if your soul craves it, you can have it. You can’t have a true desire in your heart without also having the ability to make that desire come true at the same time. This is spiritual law. You do have all it takes, now it’s just a matter of making a decision you CAN have it. To allow yourself to have it. To deem yourself worthy and deserving of the life you came here to live.

If you are ready to step into that now, I invite you to get a free copy of my Success-soul®Living Starter Kit. You will get exercises and tools to get super clear on your vision, super-charge your desires and you’ll get a meditation to help clear your subconscious mind of any of the blocks that are most likely holding you back.