How not to get stuck in the HOW

Do you ever feel like you get stuck in the “how”? You have an idea, you want to make some change in your life or your business but then you don’t understand how to do it, so you give up on the idea, or you wait, thinking that once you know how, you will do something about it.

This is a way to stay really stuck, because often, you will never know how until you actually make a decision and start doing it. In the practical, logical and masculine world we live in, most people have been taught that if they don’t know how, then they can’t do it. Or that it would be irresponsible to do something if you don’t know how.

But have you ever pondered on the fact that you actually don’t know until you do it, and the how is actually up to the Universe? Even if you think you may know how, it’s very likely that’s not how it’s going to happen.

The key to truly change your circumstances is to let go of the how. It’s not your job to know how.

Once you make a decision to do something, the Universe will show you the steps you need to take, but you may have no idea how when you make the decision. But if you wait to make a decision until you can see exactly how to do something, you may be waiting forever, staying stuck in an ever revolving hamster wheel, not getting anywhere.

Once you make a decision to do something, the Universe will show you the steps you need to take.

You need to make the decision first. This sends a clear message about your intentions, and the Universe will then show you the way. The right opportunities, circumstances and people will show up, and the how will be revealed to you.

It’s easy to get stuck in circumstances, after all, most people have been programmed to believe that life happens to them, not from them. But when you realize you create your own reality, moment by moment, you can overcome any circumstance no matter what you are going through in your life.

If you keep saying….

Once I get/do/have X, then I’ll do Y…

Chances are you are staying stuck in circumstances and you are not realizing your own power to direct your life the way you want it to be.

Your job is to decide what you want. The Universe will show you how, so don’t let not knowing how stop you.

What’s one thing you have thought about doing but not acted upon? Are you saying, once I do/get x, then I will do it?

If you do, it’s easy to become the victim.

But know that you create your own circumstances, and you also have the power right now to change them in the future. And it’s in this moment you can change your future. All the power is within you right in this very moment.

You will likely have to take a leap of faith. There are no guarantees in life, and I’ve learned that there’s little gain if you are not willing to also take some risks. You need to be willing to give up something in order to get something even better. And as long as you have a strong faith that things will work out, they will. It’s how the Universe works.

Jump, and the net will appear. It’s not your job to know or understand how this happens, just to trust that it will, and it will be so.

If you want some help shifting things in your mind and start manifesting positive change in your life and business, I invite you to get a copy of my Success-soul® Living Starter Kit. You will get a healing activation to help you clear out subconscious patterns that keep you stuck as well as a workbook to help you get clarity and a visualization meditation. Just click here for instant free access.

About Vibeke

0752 edited

I believe that the foundation for wealth is inner peace and that success should never sacrifice your health and well being.

The 5D Mini-Series

How To Elevate Your Business to 5D and Create Unlimited Abundance and Freedom Living Your Purpose

Please enter your name.
Please enter a valid email address.
Something went wrong. Please check your entries and try again.

By submitting this form you agree to the Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy.

Work With Me

Are you ready to step into Success-soul® living?

0888 resized

Recent Posts

How did I manifest this? And other questions about the Law of Attraction

How to move from separation consciousness to oneness and Divine perfection

How to release generational karma and patterns

Do parallel realities really exist?

Work from home. How to stay sane and productive while juggling kids

Search

Success-soul® Living Starter Kit Create a business that feeds your soul & your bank account

  • Get the clarity you need and the tools to get started - whether you are brand new or want to take your business to the next level
  • Powerful meditation to help you manifest your dreams
  • Clear inner blockages and fears that are holding you back from confidently stepping into your passion & purpose

Success-soul® Living Starter Kit Step into your ideal lifestyle business & live your wildest dreams.

Get the clarity you need and the tools to get started.

Please enter your name.
Please enter a valid email address.
Something went wrong. Please check your entries and try again.

By submitting this form you agree to the Terms and Conditions and Privacy Policy.

Vibeke's Bio

Vibeke's Bio

I’m Vibeke Schurch, the founder of Success-soul Living® and The 5D Business Model®.

I work with coaches, healers and change-makers to help them grow their business and live life on purpose so they can use their unique gifts to make a difference in the world while creating a lifestyle aligned with their soul blueprint.

Ever since my spiritual awakening many years ago when I healed myself from “chronic” illness in just two weeks, it’s my mission to help you wake up to your inner power and potential. I want to show you how to use your mind to manifest your wildest dreams and create your own heaven on earth while living life on purpose, and serving the people you are here to serve.

In my 20 years as a small business owner, one thing is crystal clear to me: What helps you thrive is not your not your intelligence, level of experience or skill-set, but the programming in your subconscious mind. You can be programmed for struggle and lack, or flow and abundance. In my work, I help you reprogram your mind for success and abundance so you can create a prosperous and fulfilling life living your life’s calling and doing the work you came here to do.